(Got your attention, didn’t I?) This holiday season I have been pondering and rolling around in my head the little seasonal rhyme, “Jesus is the reason for the season.” It fits well as a lapel pin, even hangs proudly as an ornament on our trees. I like it! The message is clear and points to Jesus!
Yet. I began to think of this in theological terms, the accuracy of it. I know—I KNOW you are rolling your eyes at this point. But bear with me. Recently navigating the ever so packed isles at the grocery store, stepping (with nowhere else to go) in front of someone, I politely said, “Excuse me” as I again maneuvered through the gauntlet of carts. All these people. Each one is on a mission. Each one loved by God. I wondered if THEY know Jesus.
“THEY are the reason for the season!”
The season is Christmas. Christmas is JESUS—His birth. “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whosoever believes in Him, should not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16) The best gift ever! Jesus came to earth, the divine embodied in human form. His life message pointing to Kingdom stuff. His death cleaning us up. He resurrected in full power and authority and now sits enthroned on the right hand of the Father—for US! He came to fix the man-made mess. WE are the “whosoever.” We are why He came. WE are the reason for the season! YOU are the reason for the season! (Ok, group HUG!) Yes, it’s all about Jesus, what He did for YOU! He came for YOU! THE best gift giving possible.
Even with all the self-interest, self-immersion, self, self, self and all the “I” focus today, and “whatever makes ME happy!” this Christmas as you sit among friends and family, (even the checker at the store) look into their eyes and consider THEM! What a great opening line to the gospel, said with heartfelt humility as you tenderly lean forward “Did you know YOU are the reason for the season.” Then tell them about Jesus. Tell them why He came. Most know about the baby in the manger, and most often, folks leave Jesus there—in the manger. They ignore beyond. Now tell them about the grown-up KING.
“The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us. We have seen His glory, the glory of the One and Only, Who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.” – John 1:14
When they ask, “How can I get that John 3:16 thing?” Share what Paul said, “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by confessing with your mouth that you are saved.” (Romans 10:9-10)
As a sixteen-year-old gal, someone shared Jesus with me (Dec 21, 1979) as I walked home, that 2-foot plastic nativity scene, the smudged baby Jesus—meant so much more! Still does!
Thank you, Brenda, for taking me to the feet of Jesus!
Blessed Christmas,
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)
Peace. Just the word alone brings a soft glow to the soul. In this season of warm crackling fires, hot chocolate while we open Christmas cards with gold lettering. This week of advent we celebrate peace.
Peace.
In the Old Testament, the word for peace (Hebrew) is shalom. In short, it means soundness, well-being, harmony, and wholeness. Everything is as God intended it to be. Peace is not necessarily in what we do not have, frustration, stress, unrest. But in what we do have.
The New Testament (Greek) defines peace as “to set at one again.” Painting the picture that something had once been erected (as intended) yet has toppled over. Chaos, strife, irritation, even war are the results. Once it is set back, PEACE is the result—all is in its rightful place.
Remember God and man (and Eve) in the Garden, their relationship was good and whole (peace-filled) as designed. Then there was a sin outbreak, the fellowship was broken—toppled over. Gone were the daily walks together in the garden, what was—is no longer. For generations (begetting) generations there was a missing element. Peace had toppled over. (Thanks guys!)
Fast forward to Luke chapter 2, the angels announce, “Glory to God in the Highest and on earth peace” (v14). Peace was back on earth among mankind. Jesus is the missing piece (peace). Due to his birth, life, message, death and resurrection, He came bridging the gap (which was big and ugly) between man and his God. He set it all back in place. Fellowship restored. (Thank You, Jesus!) Peace had indeed come to earth.
Peace is a Person.
Peace is not only a Person, but a position. “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ. For He Himself is our peace …for through Him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit” (Paul, Ephesians 2:13,14). We are now back, positioned where we were originally designed to be—full accepted access to God. Again, able to come into His presence. Paul declares this point, “Since we have been justified through faith, we have PEACE with God through our Lord Jesus Christ” (Romans 5:1).
Peace is a position.
Isaiah 9:6, “For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given, and the government will be on His shoulders…Prince of Peace.” Now consider Colossians 3:15, Paul wrote, “Let the peace of Christ RULE in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Does Christ take the rightful place on the throne of our life? If we are not prioritizing God ruling on the throne of our heart, be assured another will occupy it! Something. Someone. We will know peace only to the degree that we YIELD to Christ, the reigning Prince of Peace.
Peace is a priority
Paul again, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, PRESENT YOUR REQUESTS TO GOD, and the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:6-7, emphasis mine). Presenting to God means, we are NOT looking for solutions elsewhere. If we do, we can potentially place things on the throne that shouldn’t be there. May we not be throne hoarders (loading up unwanted, unneeded messy stuff). Finding peace is not just the raising of a white flag, ultimately—it is a banner of occupation! It is His design, His throne. His place. He reigns. Bow!
Peace is a posture.
Wait, there is more!
Because of our sinful nature and our perpetual continuing to do so, John strongly declares “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). As we confess, we are saying the same thing about our situation that God does. We are now in full agreement; we concede, turn around and realign and adjust our course with what God says. In this process, we are taking what was toppled over and returning to the original design and bringing Jesus back to His rightful peaceful place—in the center. We mess up—we get cleaned up. Peace restored. Biblical peace isn’t just the lack of conflict; it is the presence of the rightness of God. Remember, “Peace is like a river” (Isaiah 66:12). NOT a pond, stagnant and settled. Unlike the river, that flows from the mountain top, always moving, always refreshing, always pure.
Peace can be a process.
Is this all easy? “NO!” (Sorry to yell). Life is tough, loud, and viciously swirling at times, but we can do some throne inspection and respond appropriately. I know I do. I have to! Daily. Even in and through tears. It HAS to be Jesus! Does He take the rightful place on the throne of my life? Do I place HIM in the very center of my circumstances? Does my life behavior reflect-declare Jesus as King?
What about you?
“May the God of Peace who makes everything… holy and whole, make you holy and whole, put you together–spirit, soul and body” (1 Thess. 5:23, paraphrased, The Message). If you’re lacking peace, look to see if HE has been kicked off and replaced. Seek being set at one again. God the Maker—God at the center—God on the throne. God of peace. Pleasant peace!
Peace.
Merry Christmas.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
Christmas, a time of sharing, loving and gift giving. We are in the season of hunting for those perfect gifts. We roam the mall, the local Walmart, Target or order and excitedly await the Amazon truck.
Gifts.
We often read the Christmas story and highlight the most spectacular parts: Singing angels. “Fear Not” statements. The Star of Bethlehem, and yes, the divine precious baby in the dingy manger. YET, there are some quiet and less compelling items to be had in the excitement.
Consider, if you will, the Magi (Matthew chapter 2) as they prepare for their trek to find the child to whom the shiny Star belongs. Tradition, (not scripture) says there were three wise men, only because of the three gifts that were given. They are packing, (imagine with me) dividing the supplies list. Then they come to the gift inventory; gold is given to the first, then frankincense handed to another. “Oh yeah” the myrrh is last. How would you like to be handed the myrrh and picture yourself bowing low, head to the floor while you offer to the King of Kings, M-Y-R-R-H (said with an Eeyore deep tone). You may think “Why do I have to carry the white elephant gift?” White elephant it is not. It is one of the triune gifts that are of great value.
Have we thought about these gifts? Scholars are certain the Magi may not have truly known the value of this child, yet their gifts alone speak volumes. The gold, precious and highly valuable (and yes, fit for a King) even so, just following their visit, Joseph is told in a dream to flee to Egypt to protect the young child. The gold would have funded the venture.
Next, frankincense; a dried ground up tree sap (from the Boswellia tree) was used as incense, which was highly fragrant when burned and it too was costly. And myrrh, what is THAT? Myrrh’s resin (like frankincense) is harvested by making small incisions in the bark of the Commiphora tree, from which the gum oozes out and hardens. While it may just seem like sticky goo at first glance, myrrh has played a divine significant role through man (and God’s) history.
God is in the details; He does not waste a thing.
Myrrh was found in the divinely prescribed anointing oil for the Tabernacle and the priests (Ex 30:22-30; Lev 8:12; Ps 133:1-3). Found also in the perfumed oil in John chapter 12. Mary took a pint of perfume and poured it on Jesus’ feet—the house filled with the fragrance. The narrative describes the triumphal entry (Palm Sunday) “The next day.” It is safe to say Jesus still smelled quite fragrant from the oil. This being of Jewish telling, in Jewish culture, whilst Jewish people stood on the road as Jesus passed by, they (potentially) smelling the fragrance, resonated the Kingly procession, as they shouted, “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord! Blessed is the King of Israel (v13).
Interestingly, Mary anoints Jesus’ feet, could it be (just an observation) the anointing of His feet, not His head, was displaying the declared Majesty of God—on earth. His Kingly walk among man, (John 1:14). These uses of myrrh as well as the spices wrapped around His body following His death (John 19:39-40).
Picture at the gift giving, the Christ child, perhaps two in age or younger. Jesus with dark curly hair, possibly pudgy cheeks. At His feet, the Magi place gold, frankincense, and MYRRH. The same anointing oil used to anoint temple priests, now set before Jesus—our High Priest (Hebrews 4:14-16). The same perfumed myrrh now before small feet—perfume that would one day be poured over a grown man’s feet, those feet that would hang on a cross and be pierced. Myrrh also (in the spices) wrapped around Jesus’ body. Wrapped. Just. Before. His. Resurrection!
Jesus was also offered wine mixed with myrrh (as was the custom) while on the cross, but He did not take it (Mark 15:23). Scholars believe Jesus refused to drink the mixture, due to its numbing effect. He wanted to be fully aware—fully present in the suffering for mankind.
Wonderful gift giving. Gold, frankincense and yes, myrrh. Christmas, we celebrate Jesus, a child, Who one day, would be the man fulfilling this gift. Myrrh—HOW PROPHETIC.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
Last week I posted what faith is and five different kinds of expressions of faith. (You can read it here https://inspiredfountain.com/2025/11/24/faith-flannel/ ). I described our women’s breakfast and how we invited the gals to wear their favorite fall flannel, and that they did! The mornings’ theme was “Faith & Flannel.” In addition to their flannels of choice, each gal was handed two square swatches of plaid material as they came in (I’ll mention that in a bit).
In brief review: We looked at gutsy faith (Mark 5) being fully persuaded that Jesus is the answer, OUR answer and going beyond our comfort or others’ expectations of us to get to Him. Generous faith (Luke 5) caring enough, regardless of the cost of time and energy helping another get the Jesus help they need. Gut honest faith (Mark 9) “I do believe; help my unbelief!” God can do wonders with our honesty and openness to Him to grow our faith. Glimmer of faith (Matthew 8) we may have just a lil glimmer, but enough to cry out to Jesus. And then there’s great faith (Matthew 8) not needing any big event, just say the word, Lord! Believing God is Who He said He is, He will do what He said He will do.”
I would offer, each moment (or for some of us) each SEASON that stretches or grows our faith marks our life. Faith is living out our perception of God. We may have scattered moments of great faith, with solid spots of being gutsy, and LOUD moments of crying out to Him. Each of these marking our life, like a patchwork. The patchwork of our faith.
THIS is where the flannel comes in. The plaid checkered pattern. Each square marking a moment of our faith journey with Jesus, building and attaching to each other. With HIS love, redemption and design, making a beautiful patchwork of our life. I had the women look around the room at the large variety of plaid. All the same–yet different. Different in colors and sizes.
I had a friend sew distinct patch/stitch marks in various spots on my shirt, signifying that from a distance it seems like a normal pattern, but get up close, well, there are definitely marked squares. Sometimes we don’t see another’s square where generous friends had the faith to carry them, or they had a desperate, BOLD season for Jesus–until we’re close.
The two square swatches of plaid? One was definitely flannel, the other “looked” like it, but was actually just a T-shirt material. I shared with the gals; there are times we will attempt to treat the next faith growing moment the same as the last. Even though it may look the same, it’s made of different material. We need to ask Holy Spirit for discernment, “What is my response here Lord?” Is this requiring a gutsy moment of faith or do You just want me to get out of the way and give You room. Either way, our response will be a faith marker.
Each situation, each struggle, each success is an opportunity to add a square to our patchwork of faith.
Don’t fight it–sew it.
“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love.” (2 Peter 1:3,5-7)
What a most beautiful patchwork of faith!
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24)
Recently I spoke at our women’s breakfast, we invited the women to wear their favorite fall flannel. It was fun to see them walk in, decked out in different colors and shapes of plaid. LOTS of plaids.
Why? Below is an excerpt of what I shared with the women.
The Pastor of Hebrews wrote, “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, and the conviction of things not seen” (11:1). Faith is not a mindset of wishful thinking; it is assurance and conviction. As Paul would say, “being fully persuaded.” So persuaded that we act on what we believe. Biblical belief and faith at times can be interchangeable, but with a slight difference. I believe the chair will hold my weight; I act in faith and sit down. [See the book of James on faith and action].
Biblical faith (in Hebrew) conveys the idea of “go to the right hand.” Something (in the left hand) that was presumption or theory is now put to the right hand–established as truth. The right hand in scripture signifies strength. Remember when Joseph was in Egypt and the brothers came looking for food? Joseph sends the brothers back to their father, Jacob. They tell him about Joseph being alive. But at first Jacob’s heart, “became numb, for he did not believe them” (Genesis 45:26). He couldn’t put “to the right hand.” He couldn’t pass along the idea that his son Joseph (who was dead) was truthfully alive. [*See more below].
Three kinds of active faith: (there are more, I just pulled these forward).
Gutsy Faith: (Mark 5) The gal with a bleeding issue. She had suffered for twelve years, having seen doctors with no results. With the bleeding issue, according to Jewish custom, she was unclean and should have stayed on the outskirts of the crowd and announce “UNCLEAN!” when coming close to anyone–but she didn’t, not this time. She had heard about Jesus. She not only goes into the crowd, but she reaches out and grabs the hem of Jesus’ robe. She thought “If I just touch His garment I will be healed.”
Here’s some background. In Numbers 15:38 the men were instructed to make tassels and put on the corners of their garments. These corners (in Hebrew) can also mean “wings.” Interesting, in Malachi 4:2 “the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its wings.” Jesus wore a garment with these tassels hanging on the corners. She was fully persuaded she would find healing in the corners of His garment. She did. Jesus healed her. We also see (Matthew 14) the sick folks begged Jesus to let them touch the edge of His cloak, and all who did were healed. It wasn’t the corner/tassel–it was the man with the corners–it was Jesus! Gutsy faith–fully persuaded, going beyond!
Next, Generous faith: (Luke 5) Remember the 4 guys who lowered their paralyzed friend, down from the roof–right in front of Jesus? They did what the paralyzed man couldn’t do for himself. They personally take him to Jesus. When Jesus saw their faith, the paralyzed man was healed. Folks, find you some generous friends, friends who (have faith in God) and regardless of the cost of time, and energy, know how to take you to Jesus! With dedication and creativity.
May I add, there are many things that paralyze us. Things that we allow to numb us, dull our hearing, and our ability to see clearly. Circumstances that cause us to freeze up. Or we are weakened by the junk of this world. We can support others with our faith, having complete assurance, that going to Jesus is the BEST plan (like the generous men who cared enough to carry their friend to Jesus).
Gut honest faith: (Mark 9) The story of the father with the possessed son. The demon throws the boy into convulsions. The dad says to Jesus, “If You can do anything, help us.” Jesus said, “Everything is possible for him who believes.” The father answers honestly, “I do believe; help my unbelief!”
How many of us have said this! If not said, perhaps felt. “I do believe, help my unbelief.” You can almost see the dad step aside and give Jesus full access to his son. Faith (at times) doesn’t make sense–it makes room. Room for Jesus to do what only HE can do! Jesus delivers and heals the boy.
Faith can be difficult at times, but gut honest faith gets out of the way, looking to God to grow us, declaring “God is Who He said He is, He will do what He said He will do.” We don’t have to have it ALL together, ALL the right answers. Just come with honesty.
Gutsy, generous and gut honest faith. I didn’t even mention (yet) the glimmer of faith (Matthew 8) Jesus and the freaking out guys in the storm. Jesus addresses their little glimmer of faith. But do we notice that they had just enough to cry out to Jesus! What about great faith (same chapter) a high-ranking Roman officer encounters Jesus, his servant is home paralyzed and suffering. The officer says to Jesus, “Just say the word and he will be healed.” Jesus tells him He had not found anyone with such great faith. The servant was healed! Can you imagine coming to such faith as to say, “Just say the word!”Or “Your word says…”
Faith is living out our perception of God.
What does faith have to do with flannel? I’ll send it next week. Until then, consider, does one of these faith scenarios resonate? Are you needing faith that is gutsy, gut honest, great, or you have just enough glimmer of faith to squeak out “Help Lord!” Perhaps, you are needing Godly loving generous friends to help carry you to Jesus, or you know someone YOU through faith in your strong God, could help carry, through serving, praying and encouraging.
Faith and flannel.
Until next week: In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
*Side Note: [I found this in my research within the context of “passing to the right hand.”] Passing a tennis ball from hand to hand, back and forth can help reduce anxiety by grounding and focusing you in the present moment and calming the nervous system. It’s called bi-lateral stimulation. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say we often need spiritual bi-lateral stimulation, putting to the right hand, strengthening our perception, understanding and desire for our God.
It’s here, THAT season, and culminating in just a couple days. Halloween. Stores have stocked shelves with 30% off ticketed items by the rows. There are black cats, witch hats, spiders, eerie tombstones and yes, the ever-dreaded skulls. Americans are expected to spend a record $13.4 billion on Halloween in 2025 (up from $11.6 billion last year).
Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE fall; it is my favorite season. Crisp morning air. The foliage colors are so rich. I decorate my home seasonally with warm orange, burgundy and brown tones, reflecting the leaves outside. But Halloween does not roll this gals socks.
I am often asked why I have chosen not to celebrate Halloween. Why I don’t find it “all in fun.” What is fun about it? If you narrow it down, take a step back, the basic theme is of fear, death, and darkness—regardless of how we attempt to cutesy it or slap a smile on it. Have you really noticed how creepy-ugly and black the neighborhood yards are? (Never mind—don’t look). No, not for me. Before I get all kinds of comments, emails, texts, and smoke signals, please let me explain why (for me) I choose not to.
My family used to do the Halloween thing when I was little. Sure, I wore thin fabric climb in costumes with sweaty plastic masks. But after I came to understand and was a daughter of the Most High God and learning of His Majesty and His glorious light—I do not participate in the day of darkness. Yes, you would say “darkness and light struggle 365 days a year, why be bothered by one day?” One-singled-out-day.
Regardless. A day I can forgo.
I have seen and experienced too much from the dark side to play with it like a child’s toy or pretend in dress up, putting a mask on the undercurrent (you can’t un-see or un-know). While the parties take place, the candy bowls filled and children run from door to door, unbeknownst to most of us in the background, far in the dark corners, there are cultic activities taking place. Those deeply into the occult take this holiday very seriously and yes, the dark forces they are dealing with are very real! (*See the history of Halloween below). And by the way, (standing a lil taller on my soapbox) there is no such thing as a “Good Witch” regardless of how Hallmark wants to title it.
We must remember, “our great enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). he’s not standing in the crowd yelling “Over here! I’m here!” Paul talks about the schemes of the devil (Ephesians 6) and in the above verse, Peter instructs “Be alert!” Darkness always has an agenda. ALWAYS. It will come again and again for any crack—any opportunity to subtly peek in with the ugly and the demonic. Anything to oppose the gracious love and beauty of our God.
Alrighty. Gently climbing down off my soapbox (so as not to hurt myself) and dragging it back to the corner. No condemnation, just offering insight. You are loved.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
*History of Halloween: “Halloween’s customs are thought to have been influenced and dated back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in) the celebration of their New Year on November 1. They believed the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred (Oct 31) and the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. To commemorate the event, Druids built huge sacred bonfires, where the people gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities, this done in attempts to appease them. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other’s fortunes.” [History.com] Just to mention a small fraction that happened/happens on this designated day.
In addition, according to Wiccans, Halloween is the time when the veil between the living and the dead is considered to be the thinnest. They celebrate and take advantage of such status. I used to work with an openly devout Wiccan (we sat next to each other). I was so distracted by her dark atmosphere. It was creepy. As I began to pray for her and over her, within a week, she was gone. I came in one day and her desk was cleaned out and all her “items” removed. Light and darkness.
Who do you listen to? When things get rough, or someone hurts or angers you or you’re just not happy with life. We recently looked at this at women’s bible study. We’ve been studying Esther and in the thick of things with Haman.
Haman was a close confidant to the Persian King. He was very self-seeking and expected others to bow and revere him (beyond reality). Mordecai (Esther’s cousin) would not bow and pretty much ignored Haman. Haman was furious one day and went home to his wife and friends ranting about Mordecai, they told him “Hang’m high and be happy” (I paraphrase). OF COURSE he went to those that would agree and give him bias and unwise advice, after all—as long as he was happy (Esther chapter 5).
Haman’s crew had a knee-jerk reaction. Like them, our character comes tumbling out when faced with an intense situation. In those moments how do we respond? Who do we listen to?
Abigail.
1 Samuel 25, Abigail was informed that David wanted to be compensated for the protection he and his men provided. Men were sent to Nabal (Abigail’s husband) where Nabal harshly refused! When David found out, he and his men loaded up swords in hand.
Abigail immediately gathered what she knew was needed for the moment and headed out to meet David. The first thing she does when she sees David—she bows. She proceeds to tell him, “Yes, Nabal is a fool.” But she goes on with “Now since the Lord…surely the Lord…for the Lord will certainly…when the Lord has done… the Lord has brought.” Basically, I know you’re angry and with good merit, but David who is your God? She brought it all back to God, NOT to all the reasons, or who upset him—but God. David calms and says, “Blessed be the LORD, and bless you for your discernment that kept me from bloodshed today and vengeance” (vv32-33).
Notice David didn’t comment on the bundles of food surrounding them or that she even bowed, but it was her discernment. In verse 3 it opens describing Abagail as beautiful and intelligent. Yet, the word(s) used for intelligent is more than knowledge, meaning discretion, insight with good sense. This insight is a gift from God (1 Chron 22:12) it gives patience (Pro 19:11) it is commended (Pro 12:8) and fools despise it (Pro 23:9). Advice (or counsel) that brings it all back to God is wise!
Abigail ended up in the palace. What became of Haman? Well, the advice he got turned out to be the death of him (literally, Esther 7:10). May we be very careful who we listen to, who speaks into our life, into our situation. If all they point to is our happiness, they aren’t pointing to God. God’s standard is higher; He’s ultimate goal for us—be holy. Happiness shifts and is dependent on favored personal circumstance. However, joy is a by-product of living an obedient, Jesus following, God pleasing life. Don’t let who and what we listen to be the death of us or death of something in our life.
Who are you listening to?
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
The above is an excerpt from my teaching at women’s bible study.
This world is a mess. Fits of rage, jealousy, hatred, and just downright evil (to sum it up). What is to be our response? The same? Jesus and the apostle Paul clearly mapped it out for us. Although we live in the yuck of this culture, we are not, as Jesus followers to do and be the same. One specific; “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control” (Paul, Galatians 5:22-23a, NLT, emphasis mine).
Gentleness.
Other translations render gentleness as meekness. Meekness, many know it as “strength under control” and rightly so. It is an active and deliberate, good and positive response to and in an undesirable circumstance. Positive is the key. Although, yes, indeed a negative response may be merited, positive and gentle are the choices. It is responding from the inwrought grace of the soul, (as one Greek resource defines*). Not just the inward grace of the soul, that it dwells there, but INWROUGHT.
Inwrought is not a word we use much today or use at all. Oh, but it has the most beautiful imagery. It is intricately woven material with a particular pattern. (Of fabric or woodwork, stonework, and metal). It is the adding of another element, (read that again). Working that element into the material. Meekness/gentleness is the evidence of God’s graceworked into our soul, into our mind, will and emotions. The beauty is that ultimately it all becomes one piece of material. To take this additional element out would leave holes—gaping, ripping holes. Without God’s grace, we too would be gaping!
How do we get this priceless woven into us element—to be made evident? Come out when our merited moments present themselves. Three words: Holy Spirit and may I offer—yoke.
The yoke is a symbol of servitude. One “learning the ropes” inexperienced animal harnessed to another stronger mature animal. The yoke harness presents opportunity for the immature to stay close, walk beside, learn and experience the strength of the lead animal.
When researching the actual yoke, it is documented that it is BEST that the ox yields and raises its head up into the yoke for the most comfortable and profitable fit. This comes with time and trust that the animal is willing to voluntarily lift their head to the master and into the yoke. If forced down could cause irritation, causing the ox to lean, favoring one side and possibly altering the direction of their steps. Or perhaps, just perhaps, these missteps are due to a wrong yoke? How many of us can say we once were yoked to a wrong person, position, mindset or culture that we used as a training ground or guide.
Yes, this world is a mess. And we may have merited moments of opportunity from time to time to be negative. What a challenge! A challenge to give the world a good God response, offering a moment of gentleness—grace. We are disciples of Jesus; we allow and invite the Spirit’s power, leading and growth in our lives. We lift our head up into the yoke—Jesus’ yoke (Matthew 11:28-30). I so appreciate the paraphrase, “Walk with Me and work with Me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you” (Jesus, The Message).
Lifting—having a harnessed heart, making the world a little less messy, one (yielded) opportunity at a time. God’s grace woven in and throughout the pattern of our life.
Inwrought. A harnessed heart.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
*Geeky Greek resource, Complete Word Study Dictionary of the NT, (prautes)
I love autumn, the crisp morning air, the weather changes from hot sunny days to now wrapping yourself in your favorite quilt. Oh, and those vibrant yellow, orange, and red leaves. I find it fascinating that so much beauty can come from a season of change.
Seasons.
With so much uncertainty in the world, there is however a guarantee, according to God’s design. There WILL be another season. Fall and eventually winter. Winter turns to spring, where again it carries new life bursting forth.
The Lord has shown me that just as the atmosphere changes (often it is packaged within the holiday season) we too can personally experience a change of season. This season comes with a potentially entangled set of habits or life patterns and not to mention (but I will) a set of emotions.
For some of us our season is lingering. The cold emotional winter drags on, and on and on. Or perhaps something triggers you and an unhealthy season reappears. A season of your life you were confident had passed. A season when you chose quite unwisely, and the memories haunt you like a hungry hyena. Or you flip the calendar page and there it is—THE month. The one you dread. The month you experienced betrayal or the death(s) of a loved one. *
I experienced something similar a few years ago. It was a beautiful sunny fall day. I was driving to my granddaughter’s school to pick her up. Once in the parking lot, backing up, parking, stepping out—instantly I stopped—feeling complete dread and sorrow. Then again walking towards the school. Sorrow. I asked God, “WHAT is this?” He reminded me, the same scenario; sunny day, cool and crisp, orange, and red leaves, school buses, and it was HERE! Here, at the school I received a phone call with very traumatic news. Sorrowful news—stop in your track’s news. News that tore my family to its very core. It was all so familiar, in a way that I was not aware.
With this revelation, I knew this needed to be broken! “In Jesus’ name!” I couldn’t go through life filled with sorrow whenever the leaves changed. So, I took authority over familiarity, over the dread, the sorrow. Breaking the emotional AND spiritual hold. The fall season still gives brief twinges of pain but no longer holds its pain-filled traumatic grip on me.
God does not want us living in the past. Each new day is a gift. If we keep our hands full of the old stuff—there is no room for the new. And folks we got us some stuff. And if we are not certain what it is that is overwhelming us—ask God!
Times and seasons CAN be broken! Daniel praised God saying: “Praise be to the name of God for ever and ever. Wisdom and power are His. He changes the times and the seasons; He removes kings and raises up kings; He gives wisdom to the wise. And knowledge to those who have understanding. He reveals deep and secret things; He knows what is in the darkness, and light dwells with Him” (2:20-22).
Pray with me: “Father, may You reveal to us the seasons we may not be aware of. Seasons we only feel the effects. Show us. Perhaps it is time to lay a few things down, some habits, patterns and emotions. Empty our hands as we wait in expectant joy as You “change the seasons.” Break the familiarity in JESUS’ NAME! Free us. Let there no longer be “stop in our tracks” unaware—but moving forward with each new day. With NEW stuff in our hands. Good God stuff. Your stuff. All for our growth and YOUR glory. Amen.”
Please know, we don’t forget. However, we allow ourselves to be freed from the heavy blanket of the past. God has new, restoring, healed, and healthy seasons. When the “old season” tries to raise its ugly head packing a boatload of junk or brings along a newer pain? NOPE—JESUS! God wants feet and face. Walking forward, stop looking back—face forward.
He changes.
He removes.
He gives.
He reveals.
He KNOWS!
*For my brothers, Jeremy and Jeff—when the fall season hurts. Yet, God!
He brings the new.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
The human hand, an incredibly intricate part of the body. Consisting of twenty-seven bones and movable joints. With the bones, there are thirty-four muscles and over one hundred ligaments and tendons. Pause. Look at your hand. Wiggle your fingers. Magnificent design!
The hand is known to be one of the most utilized parts of our anatomy. The gentle brush against the cheek of a peacefully sleeping infant. The confident grip of a firm handshake. The welcoming wave to a friend across the aisle at the store. The hand resting on a shoulder as to comfort. It is a valuable moving part of our daily lives.
The hand.
King David wrote “Because Your loving devotion is better than life, my lips will glorify You. So, I will bless You as long as I live; in Your name I will lift my hands” (Psalm 63:3-4, BSB). Worship is reaching beyond us, beyond our circumstances—to Him.
Most often when scripture speaks of the hand in worship, it is the open hand—the palm. Not a fisted hand. Not closed, holding the stuff of this world. Closed as to withhold from God. It is open, conveying surrender. Allegiance. Honor. Awe.
The lifting of the hand is not just reserved for the Pentecostals; it is our response to being overwhelmed with Who He is. Surrender. Honor and awe.
The hand.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
The trendy slogan “What Would Jesus Do” from the 1990’s has pretty much faded away, yet the principle is true. The principle is good. Following what Jesus did, how and where He did it, is always the safest, the smartest, the most impacting—the BEST way to go.
Peter knew this.
Jesus.
Jesus is told by an agonizing father; that his daughter is very sick (Mark 5). Soon, men from Jairus’ house came with the news, “Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the Teacher any further?” Taking Peter, James and John, Jesus goes with them to Jairus’ home. There was great commotion with loud weeping and wailing. Sending them all out (ah…quiet) Jesus took just the mother, the father and the three disciples. Taking the little girl by the hand, He said, “Little girl I say to you, arise.” Immediately her life was restored. All were overcome with amazement (vv22-42). Peter was there—he watched Jesus.
Peter.
Peter was in Lydda when he was sent for (Acts 9). Tabitha, a good woman, a disciple of Jesus has died. Peter went to Joppa. When at the home where Tabitha’s body lay, he asked everyone to leave the room, the loud mourners were sent out (ah…quiet). “Tabitha, arise” he said. Her life was restored. Taking her by the hand, he helped her up. He called the friends and family back in, seeing her, the news spread throughout the village, and many believed in the Lord (vv 36-42).
When the situation seemed hopeless, Jesus went. Peter too. Jesus told the noise to leave. Peter too. Jesus declared “Arise!” Peter too! Jesus extended His hand. Yup, Peter too. In both scenarios, life was restored. Those around and near were amazed at the power of God.
Jesus was Peter’s pattern.
A pattern is a model or design used as a guide. When Jesus called His disciples, He said, “Follow Me.” Jesus—the ultimate Guide (wouldn’t that make a great bumper sticker). By the way, this is not a “tour guide” experience. It is a hands-on, get in the messy, get in close, get’r done (in Jesus’ name) experience.
Life can be filled with twists and turns. Known and unknowns. Joys and frustrations. What a gift God gave us to watch and learn from Jesus as He navigated the roller coaster ride of humanity. What a wild ride it is. Jesus was quiet when needed. Spoke boldly when required. Slipped away for Father time. Loved unconditionally. Pardoned the guilty. He confronted the lies. Taught among confusion. He led with righteousness.
What is our pattern? What or who do we watch and strive to emulate? Or do we just head off a lone ranger, declaring “I got this.” (How’s that working for you?) May we look to and reach for THE Pattern. Choose our steps, make our decisions, speak, love, confront, slip away for Father time—as Jesus did.
The Pattern.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
Happy “International Left-handers Day” (August 13th). Yes, it’s an annual celebrated day, established in 1976. Studies suggest that approximately 10% of the world’s population is left-handed.
Lefties…
Use the right side of the brain the most.
Twice as likely to be a man.
Better at multitasking.
Of the eight most recent U.S. Presidents, four have been left-handed.
Less able to roll their tongue than a righty (fun facts to share with your friends).
Yes, and there’s a verse for that! What does the Bible say about being left-handed? In the Hebrew “left-handed” is itter and only mentioned two times in scripture (Judges 3 & 20) and literally means “not of the right hand”—thus, left-handed.
Judges 20 (Brief summary). There was a very icky situation and due to it, war broke out between the tribe of Benjamin and all the rest of the tribes of Israel. “Among all these were 700 chosen men who were left-handed” (v16). These lefties were in addition to 26,000 gathered men of the tribe of Benjamin. “Chosen” is a keyword. The Benjamites went looking for left-handed men.
WHY?
Back up to Judges 3. Israel had again went about doing “evil in the eyes of the Lord” (Boooo!) God allowed the bad king Eglon of Moab to help teach the Israelites a lesson. A lesson through warfare. Israel cried out to God, and He sent Ehud (of the tribe of Benjamin) who just happened to be left-handed. Left-handed Ehud goes on to defeat the bad king. (YAY!) Moab became subject to Israel and there was peace in the kingdom for 80 years. (Ahh!) All of Israel knew the story of the left-handed Benjamite—Ehud!
THAT is why the Benjamites went looking for lefties—in hope of having a military advantage. They were known for being able to “sling a stone at a hair and not miss” (Judges 20:16). But the Benjamites, however, did lose the battle. Guess the lefties missed. (Oops!)
Although interesting left-handed facts, what a lesson for us, a true principle to help guide us. We can’t always reach from our past in hope that what worked before will work—now. God used the left-handed man to show the Israelites that when they are in fellowship with Him, He takes the least (one man) and makes the MOST (because HE is involved). His lessons take on a new angle with each battle. Left-handed or right-handed, new battle, new battle plan. God’s plan.
Side note: Throwing in Jewish custom/culture: Right opposed to left: When offering a blessing, the right hand is extended (I.e. Genesis 48, Jacob blessing Joseph’s sons, he crossed his arms). Also, the “right” parts of the body play an important role in sacrifices (see Leviticus, ok skim Leviticus). Such as the right thigh, right ear, right thumb. The “right” generally expressed strength such as the “right hand of God” (Ex. 15:6, 12; Isa. 62:8; Ps. 17:7) and which was worthy of the Psalmists’ praises (Ps. 98:1; 118:15, 16).
If the left is considered weak (as opposed to the right/strength) it is quite ironic that after the Israelites turned back to God, He chose the weak handed man Ehud to deliver them. Go God!
*Empathetic Disclaimer: Please know, being left or right-handed does not determine value! Left vs right is more symbolic than anything.
Happy National Left-Handers Day.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
In my quiet time I have been reading through the book of Galatians. I am fascinated of Pauls telling of his encounter with Jesus. Paul, zealous in the traditions of his forefathers, advancing ahead of his colleagues, and once a persecutor of the Christians. Then dramatically calls it like it is “But when God” (Galatians 1:15, NIV) —everything changed. Don’t you just love it! We all need a “but when God” in our life! He goes on to say God called him by His grace and revealed His Son to him (v16).
When Jesus presented Himself to Paul (remember the bright blinding light). He knocked Paul on his backside and was appealing first to His senses. He had to get Paul’s attention! Paul was a highly educated man, a thinking man. Perhaps God was getting past his head so he could not attempt to rationalize the encounter, (thus three days of blindness). The verse goes on to say, this revelation—all was done ultimately “so that” he might preach Him. (See Galatians 1:11-16 and Acts 9).
I appreciate that the Word of God is so practical. The phrase “so that” (used 80x in the NKJV) not only gives us a connecting clause but also is powerful and insightful—this is why. Not that God needs a reason, but graciously and divinely, the writers included it and the Holy Spirit breathes understanding through it.
“Walk in the ways of the LORD your God so that you may live and prosper” (Deut. 5:33).
All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16,17).
Paul prays “I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know Him better” (Ephesians 1:17).
“Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).
“Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes” (Ephesians 6:11).
May we spot the “so that’s” in scripture, aware there is a reason, and the reason is intended to be known. May we also see the “so that” in everyday life. Being mindful of moments (i.e.) realizing perhaps a delay was divinely designed “so that” we were able to see God move, or God move through us. Or, the slow tractor on the road is a blessing, so that I may avoid an accident up the road a bit.
Noting too, like Paul, God may find the need to get our attention and knock us on our backside, (He has me a couple-three times). When He does, let’s look for the reason, “So that ______________________” (you and Holy Spirit fill in the blank).
The graciousness of God, “This is why.”
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
I am reminded in this season of life of a trip I took a few years ago, traveling across parts of Oregon heading to a family wedding. There was plenty of time to watch the scenery pass on by. Observing the geographical change from plush green, to gorge, to dry, to waving fields of wheat. Quietly, I sensed the Lord whisper to my heart, “Speak to the Corners.” Hm. Speak to the corners? Having no idea what He was referring to at first, I asked Him to SHOW me the corners.
I was made aware of the circular irrigation systems of the fields just outside my window. Studying those, I saw the corners. Green stalks of young corn, grown in a circular pattern. Then there were the dry, intentionally unattended corners of the fields. Assuming the farmers “did the math” and determined it wasn’t cost-effective to plant or water there. I sensed God saying, “THIS is not what I intend for your heart. No hidden, unhealthy, unwatered, unproductive, unfruitful—corners.”
We all have corners. Stuff tucked back, WAAAAY back into the corners of our heart. Corners, where hidden, nothing healthy and good can grow there. Concepts, perspectives, views of ourselves and unhealthy views of God. Stuffed places of wrongdoings, habits or—hurts. How do we handle the corners?
1 Samuel 24.
King Saul is in hot pursuit of David. David and his men are hiding in a cave. Far back, in the corner (if you will) they sat quietly. Saul comes into the cave for some privacy, to relieve himself. David’s men encourage him with hushed whispers, “THIS is your chance! Go ahead!” (I paraphrase). Can you imagine the split-second thoughts that may have run through David’s mind? “Yes, you are right, I am called to be King, I end this NOW! This man has lashed out at me! What have I done to deserve this?”
But NO! There wasn’t deathly violence involved. Yet, there in the dark corner of the cave, David instead, stealthily crept forward, cutting off a small corner of Saul’s robe. In this, David was quickly convicted of what he had done (*cutting at the lineage of Saul’s family, see below). I am learning, Godly conviction can be a tremendous gift. Do not deny or avoid it—lean into it! David proceeded telling the men he was wrong to do so, and they too were not to harm Saul. Taking it further, he stepped out into the light. He called out and revealed his presence to the King. In short, Saul is humbled by the “I chose not to” opportunity by David. Saul genuinely shares, “May the LORD reward you well for the way you treated me today. I know you will surely be king” (vv19, 20).
May we too be rewarded well for the (good) choices we make in the corners. Sure, there may be brief missteps here and there. Yet may we consider our thoughts, motives and actions, and make quick adjustments (like David). Knowing God knows our corners—watches our responses, awaits and invites (may I use David’s example) healthy stepping into the light—into the Presence of the King. May we take a divine pause and listen to the conviction. Not those around us, not the screaming hurt-filled voice inside our head—listen to what is right in GOD’S eyes.
God knows ALL. Regardless of how well we try to deny the reality of our corners and tuck it, shove it, even barricade it way in the back. Until one day and it will—it all spills out!
God boldly states, “Can anyone hide from Me in a secret place? Am I not everywhere in all the heavens and earth?” says the LORD” (Jeremiah. 23:24, NLT). And the Pastor of Hebrews wrote: “Nothing in all creation is hidden from God. Everything is naked and exposed before His eyes, and He is the one to whom we are accountable” (4:13).
Corners.
May we speak to our corners. Our intentionally unattended corners. May we echo the tender words of King David, “O Lord, You have examined my heart and know everything about me” (Ps. 139:1). He continues, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends You and lead me along the path of everlasting life” (vv 23,24).
God wants ALL our heart, corners and all! He wants it healthy and profitable, fruitful—all for His good pleasure.
Corners count.
*The hem: It goes way back to ancient(er) days. God instructs the Israelites to wear garments with specifically designed borders, hems or fringes also known as tassels. (Nu. 15; Deut. 22; Ex 28). These fringes came to represent authority, personality, their place in society and even lineages were sewn into the hem. Noblemen of the day would sign their name, authenticating, by lifting their robe and pressing the hem into wet clay tablets—specific stitching indicating family and function. Scholars believe David was convicted because he CUT Saul’s lineage and symbolically cut the identity and authority of the Lord’s anointed. It was not God’s instruction. It was not God’s timing. Saul and David understood what had just taken place. (Read the conversation, 1 Samuel 24:8-22)
Speak to the corners.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).
Sacred Spaces. Those places and moments when you block out the world, the noise, the chaos and quietly bow your head. The moment offering a spiritual breath. Exhaling the exhaustion of the day or the season and inhaling His strength. A place and moment of divine recognition.
When God moves and speaks, revealing Himself to us, what is our response? Do we mark those moments on the timeline of our life, like we do when measuring the growth of our children. Or do we just give a quick nod of the head and continue on our way?
I admire those of ancient times, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. They had many things in common, but one, in particular stands out to me—they built altars (Genesis 12:7, 26:25, 35,14).
Moses too marked God moments. Exodus 17, he’s found sitting on top of a hill, below him the battle wages on. Joshua leads the Israelites against the Amalekites; they were winning as long as Moses kept his hands raised. When he grew tired? Aaron and Hur placed a stone under him to sit and then stood beside him, holding his arms up. They did win the battle miraculously with God ability, “Moses built an altar and called it ‘The Lord is my Banner’” (v15). It doesn’t say it in the narrative, but I can imagine Moses taking rocks and placing them on top of the large stone he sat on during the battle, marking the fight—marking the victory. A place and moment of divine recognition indeed.
An altar is a landmark of God’s presence. It declares a sacred space, sacred due to the moment, the Presence and hunger of our heart. May we be like the Patriarchs of old, may we too be altar builders. Although there may be no need to take our sandals off and culturally no longer gather various rocks and pile them in our backyard. Yet may we make some kind of recognition.
Recently while driving to work, I was impacted by my surroundings. A combine was cutting hay on my left and a field of foot tall corn on my right. Further I passed alpacas, cows, horses, and goats. Why impacted? For the last forty plus years I have lived primarily in the city in the Portland Metropolitan area. Now I drive through the country. The blessing was so overwhelming, I built an altar right there in the moment (and no, I didn’t pull over and wander through the farmers field looking for rocks) but I marked the moment by thanking God for this (out loud) and determined to remember.
Altar building: recognizing, remembering and declaring THIS is where God met with me. Honoring and worshipping He Who is faithful—He Who is worthy.
Sacred spaces.
In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)
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