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Matthew, a gospel writer, was a detailed tax-collector, turned disciple of Jesus. He was a numbers and money man. He mentions gold and silver 28 times, but they’re only mentioned once in Mark and 4 times in Luke, and none in John. God uses Matthew (his personality, skills and way with accounting) when quoting Jesus, “And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matt 6:12) —accounting terms. Luke writes “forgive us our sins” (Luke 11:4). Both are right and accurate.

In the books of Luke and Acts, Dr Luke (as described in Col 4:14) uses specific medical terminology. He gives a description regarding the bent over woman, (Luke 13) the words he uses to describe her condition and Jesus’ healing are actual medical terms. 

John. The beloved John. The one whom Jesus loved and who outran Peter to the tomb, spoke of and emphasizes Jesus is the Son of God.

And there is Peter, the one who was passionately outspoken, enthusiastic, and at times quite brash. He actually told Jesus “Never, Lord!”  And it was also him who aggressively swung his sword in the Garden (and slightly missed). Yet it was Peter who wrote with divine instruction “Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8).

Interestingly, we do not read Peter apologizing later, “Dear beloved church, in my early days I was impulsive, hasty and at times a bit reckless, sorry about that.” No. Instead we read, “Simon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 1:1).  Yes, yes, he was.

God used all the biblical writers, guiding them to what HE wanted written, BUT they did not lose their individuality. God used each one to offer a unique perspective, a different expression that person could bring.  

We too, do not lose our individuality being used by God. Our artistic creativity, He will use it.  Our love for words. Our gift of hospitality. Those with technical, strategic minds. Storytellers, encouragers. Some have an eye for detail. And those who make it a priority to show up. So goes the list. God uses it. He uses YOU.

Let us be open and available (and ever transforming to the image of Christ) to be used for a unique GODLY expression. Wherever we are, whatever we are doing, whatever we are holding and saying—to the glory of God. Where the pages of our life (my life) also reads, “Dede, a servant and disciple of Jesus Christ.”

Be open, be used, may the pages of your life read of Jesus.

Used by God.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good  deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).

Posted by  |  September 28, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Don’t Be Stupid

“Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge but he who hates correction is stupid.” (Proverbs 12:1)

Yup, it literally says—stupid.  I checked twelve translations* (even the Living Bible calls it like it is). There ya go, it’s biblical.

Taking a closer look explains why stupid?

When we hear the word ‘discipline,’ our minds usually go to pain, penalties, and punishment. But this is not what this verse is saying. We are being pointed toward wisdom by giving us the insight we need to see things clearly and change course if needed. When someone speaks truth in our life—we are to listen. When Holy Spirit speaks, or the scriptures speak—we are to heed

Paul wrote, “If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.” (Galatians 5:25)

Walking by the Spirit changes how we react to normal, everyday frustrations (and we got us a boat load). Meaning, pausing before we react (a good pause can be a gift). We ask for guidance and relying on God’s strength and divine insight instead of our own strength and not to mention (but I will) our current mood or frame of mind.

What about those mornings, we genuinely ask Holy Spirit to guide us, show Himself BIG today. But by 3 o’clock, we’re just not feeling it. We ignore the promptings and block any further communication. We move on to the next moment so fast, acting as if we didn’t hear, like a two-year-old with the forbidden 2nd cookie in their hand—ignore, turn and run!

Professor and theologian, A.J. Swoboda said, “There is no place in your life that He doesn’t have authority to speak.”  So, yes, when we attempt to block what He wants to interject into our moment, our season, our LIFE, we indeed do not love His instruction.

The opening verse is blunt and doesn’t sugarcoat it, refusing to listen to correction doesn’t protect or is even concerned about our pride—it just stops our progress. Progress in growing to be like Jesus and bringing glory to the Father! 

Stupid isn’t how we use the term today; it is a chosen response. Conveying a clogged mind or a blocked mind (In the Hebrew). Vivid isn’t it. We choose to put on blinders, rejecting what is told to us, either the divine bold whisper or avoiding those who seek our best interests.

My timeline is dotted with stupid. What a challenge indeed to be a recovering (God-ignoring) stupid individual.  

Don’t be stupid.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

*“Stupid” found in the NASB, ESV, NET, AMP, NKJV, RSV, CSB, NLT, NIV, LEB, TLV, BSB.

The above is a brief excerpt from my recent teaching on a Sunday morning at church. I used it to emphasize how we speak to and about others. Do we allow (invite) Holy Spirit to guide and correct (in the moment) or do we ignore and refuse Him. (I know, “OUCH!”)

Posted by  |  September 11, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: , | Leave a comment

Prior Moments

A couple of weeks ago at church during worship, there was a pause, an intentional pause of silence in-between songs. No clapping—QUIET.

I LOVED it! It wasn’t long, only about 8 seconds, yet it was extremely noticeable. For it was a holy pause of reverence. The moment of silence set the tone for the rest of our worship time. 

How often do we pause? We are a run-full-force-forward society that taking pause actually seems awkward. As I sit working through the homework for our upcoming women’s study launching in a few weeks—I too pause. An intentional preparative (head bowed) pause.

I take my cue from Ezra. 

WHO?

Ezra was a scribe from the Old Testament; he was full of passion and zeal for God and His word. He along with Nehemiah was instrumental in creating an environment for revival and restoring spiritual devotion and worship. 

One verse that jumps out defines the sincere outcome, “For Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the Law of the LORD, and to do it, and to teach statutes and ordinances in Israel.” (7:10 NKJV, emphasis mine) 

Ezra prepared his heart. 

Prepared his heart to seek, to do, and teach. What a beautiful 3-step focus. Ezra’s effectiveness as a leader came directly from established prior moments, moments of intentional setting his heart.

Before the Lord—ahead of leading the people.

We too need purposefully created prior moments (pause) and position our heart, mind, and understanding. 

How often do we grab a mug of coffee, slide into our comfortable chair and open the Bible and begin reading? What might be the outcome if we were to intentionally pause before opening the Book? Before reaching for our pencil and journal? A quick 8-second pause of reverence, preparing our heart (like Ezra) might make a noticeable difference, setting the tone for what comes next as we run into our day.

May we like Ezra prioritize purpose-filled prior moments.

Principle for leadership: We must stand before the Lord in private before we ever attempt to stand before the people in public.

Prior moments.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

* We can read Ezra’s story in the short book with his name and the squeal, Nehemiah.

Posted by  |  September 3, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Leave a comment

Valleys

Isn’t it interesting that we strive for the mountain tops? But once there, we immediately turn and gaze back down at the now declared most beautiful valley below. What a great view! Pictures are taken, and images are set to memory.

Even though we long for and greatly desire the mountain tops, (both physically and metaphorically) there is beauty in the valley. It is there, in the valley, water flows down and pool for refreshment and teams with life. From there, in the valley, sunrises and sunsets are seen most spectacularly across the mountain range. It is from the valley that we can only—look up. 

Pastor-theologian Charles Spurgeon said, “We find that most men confess that God is God of the hills, but they forget that He is also Lord of the valleys.” 

Life’s valleys have ups and downs, twists and turns, we know that for sure. But I have learned that valleys can teach us some of our greatest life lessons. The Bible reveals powerful truths we can learn from the valley.

  • Valleys are to be explored: Spies are sent out into the unknown, where it “Flowed with milk and honey” and upon return, carry large clusters of grapes, found in a valley (Numbers 13).
  • Valleys are a place to wage war: David and Goliath. Where all David’s training confirms to be useful, and he realizes the battle is the Lords’ as he fought in the name of the LORD Almighty (1 Samuel 17). The giant defeated. War and enemies defeated in the valley.
  • Valleys are for fresh water: Amid a great famine, and trouble from neighboring people, Isaacs has favor when water is found in digging new wells in a valley (Genesis 26).
  • A valley is a place of rebuilding, repairing and restoring: AFTER Manasseh got his act together, he rebuilt the outer wall in the valley, allowing opportunity to repair the altar and restore sacrificial offerings (2 Chronicles 33).  
  • There is community victory in the valley: With unconventional means, (trumpets, torches and clay pots) Gideon and crew creatively beat the Midianites (Judges 6 & 7) in a valley.

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  • Valleys are a place to destroy idols: King Josiah ordered the Asherah poles to be taken down and “burn them outside Jerusalem in the fields of the Kidron Valley” (1 Kings 23:4).  An idol is anything replacing the One True God, in any form—in any place. 
  • Valleys are not to be feared: King David (scholars believe) wrote the beloved Psalm 23 in his later years. Once a shepherd—he too was shepherded. He declares, “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil” (v4). Regardless of danger or anxious filled moments or what may lurk about—Do not fear!
  • Miracles happen in the valley: God challenged Ezekiel to speak to the dry bones (in the valley). He did and they came alive! “This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Look! I am going to put breath into you and make you live again” (Ezekiel 37:5, NLT). God’s life-giving breath—in the valley.

Valleys aren’t just places we pass through, they are places where life happens. May we not spend so much time looking ahead that we miss what God wants to teach us right here in the valley: Exploring, fighting, digging, rebuilding, destroying, breathing new life, NOT fearing, rejoicing in the victory and anticipating miracles.

If you find yourself in a valley season (with no clear view of the mountain), take pause before great attempts are made to climb out. Pay attention, take notes, so when you find yourself here again, there is something familiar—God is God of not only the mountain tops, but He is also Lord of the valleys. 

Valleys.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).

Posted by  |  August 17, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Left-Handed

Happy “International Left-handers Day.” Yes, it’s an annual celebrated day, established in 1976.  Studies suggest that approximately 10% of the world’s population is left-handed.

Lefties…

  • Use the right side of the brain the most.
  • Twice as likely to be a man.
  • Better at multitasking.
  • Of the eight most recent U.S. Presidents, four have been left-handed.
  • Less able to roll their tongue than a righty (fun facts to share with your friends).

Yes, there’s a verse for that! What does the Bible say about being left-handed?  In the Hebrew “left-handed” is itter and only mentioned two times in scripture (Judges 3 & 20) and literally means “not of the right hand”—thus, left-handed.

Judges 20:  In short: There was a very icky situation and due to it, war broke out between the tribe of Benjamin and all the rest of the tribes of Israel.  “Among all these were 700 chosen men who were left-handed…” (v16).  These lefties were in addition to 26,000 gathered men of the tribe of Benjamin. “Chosen” is a keyword. The Benjamites went looking for left-handed men.

WHY?

Back up to Judges 3. Israel had again went about doing “evil in the eyes of the Lord” (Boooo!) God allowed the bad king Eglon of Moab to help teach the Israelites a lesson. A lesson through warfare.  Israel cried out to God, and He sent Ehud (of the tribe of Benjamin) who just happened to be left-handed. Left-handed Ehud goes on to defeat the bad king. (YAY!) Moab became subject to Israel and there was peace in the kingdom for 80 years. (Ahh!) All of Israel knew the story of the left-handed Benjamite—Ehud!

THAT is why the Benjamites went looking for lefties—in hope of having a military advantage.  They were known for being able to “sling a stone at a hair and not miss” (Judges 20:16). But the Benjamites, however, did lose the battle. Guess the lefties missed. (Oops!)

Although interesting left-handed facts, what a lesson for us, a true principle to help guide us. We can’t always reach from our past in hope that what worked before will work—now.  God used the left-handed man to show the Israelites that when they are in fellowship with Him, He takes the least (one man) and makes the MOST (because HE is involved).  His lessons take on a new angle with each battle. Left-handed or right-handed, new battle, new battle plan. God’s plan.

Side note: Throwing in Jewish custom/culture: Right opposed to left: When offering a blessing, the right hand is extended (I.e. Genesis 48, Jacob blessing Joseph’s sons, he crossed his arms). Also, the “right” parts of the body play an important role in sacrifices (see Leviticus) such as the right thigh, right ear, right thumb. The “right” generally expressed strength such as the “right hand of God” (Ex. 15:6, 12; Isa. 62:8; Ps. 17:7) and which was worthy of the Psalmists’ praises (Ps. 98:1; 118:15, 16).

If the left is considered weak (as opposed to the right/strength) it is quite ironic that after the Israelites turned back to God, He chose the weak handed man Ehud to deliver them.

*Empathetic Disclaimer: Please know, being left or right-handed does not determine value!  Left-handed vs right is more symbolic than anything.

Happy Left-handers Day.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).

Posted by  |  August 13, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: , | Leave a comment

The Simple

Simple. We all seek the simple, the quick, and the instant in life. Even though that’s what we want, when something is presented without difficulty, we pick it up, look behind it and wonder where the rest is.

We often take this mentality into our walk with Jesus as well. If it seems uncomplicated, effortless and even manageable at times, instead of quick obedience, we begin to reach for stuff to fill in the cracks, make it heavier than designed and without a doubt, let’s OVER-THINK-IT!

Most of the basics are just that—simple. This Jesus life is co-operative. His divine (instruction and empowerment) with our obedience, equates good God stuff!

John 9, the blind man, blind from birth, encounters Jesus. Jesus puts spitty-mud on the guy’s eyes and instructs him to go and wash. “So, I went and washed and then I could see.” (v11)

Go and wash.

Simple.

Yet, there are others who hesitate due to simplicity. Naaman, the commander of the Syrian army (2 Kings 5). He’s a mighty man of valor yet had leprosy. Through interesting circumstances, he was told to go dip seven times in the Jordan River and he’d be healed. But the man thought he needed DESERVED more! Bring out the parade, “Elisha wave your hand over me, pray a glorious King James prayer” (ok, I added that last part).

Naaman in his stubborn pride, rejected the simple command. Criticized the detail and blinded by rage, turned his back on God’s instruction, walked away still trapped in his disease.

Until.

His servant challenged him. By asking, “If you had been told to do something great, would you have done it?”

He eventually went, did the dunking and was finally healed. His healing, however, was delayed due to denial of simplicity.

Denial leads to delay.

What is God instructing us? Are we holding out for more before we respond? We want bigger, more attention, more time to figure out an alternate plan. Perhaps, we’re making it more difficult than it is.  Maybe, if we surrender and obey, our ‘finally‘ can come sooner.

Simple.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

Small print disclaimer: We don’t obey to force God’s hand; we obey because He is God. If He says it—do it

Posted by  |  August 8, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Just Don’t!

Paul stands before King Herod Agrippa explaining his encounter with the risen Lord Jesus:

“O King, I saw on the way a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, shining all around me… And when we had all fallen to the ground, I heard a voice saying to me, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting Me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ “And I said, ‘Who are You, Lord?’ And the Lord said, ‘I am Jesus whom you are persecuting” (Acts 26:13-15, emphasis mine).

Jesus calls Paul (his Roman name) by his Hebrew name “Saul” and tells him “It is hard for you to kick against the goads.”  

Kicking WHAT? 

The bible is full of idioms (a common expression known to a specific culture or era). “Kicking against the goads” was a Greek proverb painting a picture the ancient culture easily understood. A goad was much like our modern-day cattle prod (minus the electric current). Farmers would use a pointed stick with a piece of iron on its tip to urge or prod a stubborn ox forward or along the guided path. Often the ox (in resistance) would kick against it. When doing so, the ox caused more pain for themselves. The Greeks used this saying to imply “ruinous resistance.” Paints a picture, doesn’t it? It narrows down to this: unyielding rebellion can lead to self-destructive and unfavorable consequences. With a warning label: “Just don’t.” 

Kicking against the goads.

Paul was a contemporary of Jesus’ time. He may have been in Jerusalem the same time and heard Jesus speak. Paul stood by as Stephen gave glorious testimony of Jesus. There were ample opportunities for Paul, but he refused. Jesus rebukes him, telling him that he was only hurting himself in resisting the truth. Resisting Him. He had to learn the hard way–resisting Jesus is a losing battle. Not to mention (but I will) a losing battle that WILL (like Paul) knock you on your backside (Acts 9:4).

When reading the bible, we remember that there are specific words or warnings to specific people, yet in principle, it is for us as well. Jesus says this to Paul but packs a punch likewise for us. Are we actively in stubborn resistance? How often do we sabotage our own spiritual growth by opposing God? Like it or not. Resist it or not.  God is sovereign. It is HIS WAY! Solomon wrote, “Stern discipline awaits him who leaves the path” (Prov 15:10a). Stay on the path! God’s path.

Kicking against the goads may come in many forms. Jonah is a great example. God pointed in one direction–he went in another. His “goad” kicking got him a violent storm, personal tossing overboard and ultimately a dark smelly fish belly. 

What does our goad kicking look like? Have we been able to identify God’s loving discipline. Are we experiencing some unfavorable outcomes? May we stop sabotaging life and spiritual growth by opposing God and get back on the guided path!

It may be a wild journey—yet for our good and His glory.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

Posted by  |  July 31, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Throne Management

The 10 Commandments were not created for a great scene to build Charleston Heston’s career. But a true event of God giving instruction and those instructions just as relevant today as they were when Moses brought them down from his encounter with God. Many see the list as a list of rules.  Rules of “shall” and “shall nots” (found in Exodus 20).

When the Israelites left Egypt after HUNDREDS of years of slavery, their only contribution to their freedom was their response of obedience. To maintain that freedom, there are guidelines, more than rules, those instructions are an invitation full of blessings.

The second command:

“You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything… You shall not bow down to them or worship them (Exodus 20:4-5).

When we think of an idol what first comes to mind?  Some shiny gold statue (think Indiana Jones) or may be a tall marble figure in a city square, or perhaps a delicate carved image surrounded by glowing lit candles. We might say, “I’m good, I don’t have any statues or shrines in my life.”

Or do we?

An idol is anything that takes God’s place in our heart, receiving the worship, trust, and devotion meant for—God alone.

What is the one thing we feel we cannot live without?” (beyond the necessities of life: food, water, air etc.). Seriously, what do we think we couldn’t survive without?  Okay, I’ll say it, what about our cell phones? We leave home and forget it; we turn around and go after it. When we hold it, we have access to the world, to friends, and family. It gives us directions and entertainment. Gives us INSTANT knowledge.  Just about INSTANT everything. YES!  It is a convenient tool. It’s the technology culture of the day. But do we reach for it TOO much! Does it lead our thoughts, desires, and decisions—where we should be turning to God and His word?

(WAIT! Finish reading this before you put it down).

An idol is anything that we allow to stand between us and God. When our world shakes, what is the very first thing we run to for comfort?  Who or what do we trust most with our life? What is demanding our absolute best energy, leaving God with only our leftovers?  What consumes our thoughts and devotion?

Devotion when not in its proper place can easily turn to worship. We are designed for worship. It’s not a question of whether we worship (OH! We will!) but who or what! Worship is assigning ultimate worth to whatever sits at the center of our life. What steers our life.

When we first come to Jesus and make Him Lord of our life, He sits alone as the Ruler, Who reigns the throne of our heart. But over time, what begins to make its way back up on the throne.

We get busy, focused, even dedicated. Yet, we stack the throne. For some of us we are throne hoarders!  The enemy of our soul wants to distract us by piling heaps on the throne, clogging and cluttering. Jesus was once noticeable—now not so much.  It’s sad that we must dig for HIM amongst all the stuff.

The stuff is good and important: Family, work, travel, vacation, toys, children and so goes the list. But all in its proper place. The seat of the throne of our life is reserved for God alone; there is no God and. If not, it’s only a matter of time until our heart becomes desensitized when our focus shifts away from God.  Draining our spiritual life and rendering us ineffective for the Kingdom. It can so mess us up that we are simply, ineffective.

Who or what is at the center of our worship—our trust—our devotion? What counsels our life focus? Are we fully surrendered to the King or fully loaded with the stuff. (Pause and take a long look at the thrones above).

It’s all about throne management.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” Hebrews 10:24)

*The above is an excerpt from my teaching at church as we walk through each blessed instruction. Yes, I used a throne (pretty chair) and started with the gold crown. I added and added until the crown was buried. Each person was sent home with a lil gold crown as a reminder to keep HIM at the center, as —ONLY!

Posted by  |  July 23, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

How Do You Bow

A few years ago (well, MANY actually) as we were driving to a midweek church service, I glanced over at my then 11-year-old son. He was wearing his favorite Oregon Ducks cap.

I asked him to remember to take it off before we went into church. Then I explained that it was a simple way to show reverence to the Lord. The puzzled grin on his face told me he didn’t quite understand. After thinking for a moment, I said, “That cap is your favorite. You wear it everywhere. It’s kind of your trademark. When you choose to take it off for God, you’re telling Him, ‘You’re worth more than my favorite hat. You’re greater. You’re bigger. You’re better.’ It’s your way of bowing to Him and saying, ‘God, You’re the coolest of all.'”

He smiled and said, “Cool. I get it.”

Maybe that’s just a silly mom illustration, but it led to a great conversation. The cap came off and stayed on the car seat.

How do we bow?

King David wrote, “But I, by Your great mercy, will come into Your house; in reverence will I bow down toward Your holy temple.” (Psalm 5:7)

Reverence isn’t something we see very often today. If someone bows their head, onlookers raise an eyebrow or two.  If someone intentionally shows honor, others may scoff. If someone chooses to put God first, they may even be criticized.

Yet the writer of Hebrews gives us this clear instruction: “Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear. For our God is a consuming fire.” (Hebrews 12:28–29)

What a beautiful picture of reverence.

It’s far more than a quick nod of acknowledgment, like giving a casual wave to a friend in the grocery store before pushing your cart down the produce aisle. Reverence is a heart that intentionally recognizes who God is.

Yes, (I know what you’re thinking) Hebrews also tells us to “come boldly to the throne of grace” (4:16). We can come with confidence because of Jesus. We are invited to come boldly—but never casually. Boldness is our privilege; reverence is our posture. Boldness should never replace awe and wonder. Reverence isn’t about putting on a performance. It begins with a heart that recognizes who God is. It reflects the condition of heart. It’s a settled attitude that remembers Who is on the throne—Jesus

He is bigger.

He is better.

He is the King of kings and Lord of lords.

So, the question remains:

How do we bow?

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

By the way, the picture above is the lovely Duck gap.  It’s been washed a few times, with some white paint splatters. It somehow ended up in my belongings after all these years, that 11 year old is now 33.  It is a treasured token—a mom’s memory of honoring. And, yes, I wear it now and then (But not to church).

Posted by  |  July 13, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: , | Leave a comment

At the River’s Edge

Ever been in a situation that seems just too big, too deep, too loud and basically moving way too fast that you feel it is impossible to cross or get through?   You begin to look for alternatives to get to the other side, but frankly there aren’t any. You might as well just take a seat and watch life just float on by (Metaphorically speaking of course). I’d like to share what it’s like to be at the water’s edge and have God deliver us–across.

We begin our journey in Joshua chapter 3. Brief summary of where we are on God’s timeline: Moses has brought the Israelites out of Egypt and out of slavery. They are heading for the Promise Land, their inheritance, a place to call their own. Due to MANY circumstances (which could not be contained in this article) they wander for 40 years. Following Moses’ death, Joshua, who now holds the reins of leadership, prepares the people to cross the Jordan River into the Land. Can you imagine with me what it was like for Joshua as he opened Moses’ will, “To Jeped I leave my sandals, to Eliazer my cloak, and to Joshua–THEM. The thousands, those who complain, the dusty ones. May Jehovah have mercy on your soul!” (TOTALLY kidding)

We pick the story up: Their tents pitched on the river’s edge. They could see it, after all these years, THERE it was! HOWEVER, the river stood between them and their inheritance. The river is at flood stage. They were SO close! Oh great, we get here, and this is what we find, it is bigger, wider, faster and deeper than expected.

Joshua summons the people: “Consecrate yourselves for tomorrow the LORD will do AMAZING things among you” (v.5 emphasis mine). Looking at the flooded river, yep amazing is what it is going to take! I love this amazing. We find it in another known story, Genesis 18:14, where God tells Abe and Sarah that in their old age they will have a son and remember Sarah laughs (who wouldn’t!) God says, “Is anything too hard for the LORD? I will return to you at the appointed time next year and Sarah will have a son.” Too hard, it is the same ‘amazing‘ (in Hebrew) as in Joshua. Is anything too amazing for God–too hard for HIM?

The river is RAGING. Joshua has the priests carry the ark of the covenant, God’s represented presence on their shoulders. “When you reach the edge of the Jordan’s water, go and stand in the river” (v.8). Just stand. Verse 15, “Yet as soon as the priests who carried the ark reached the Jordan and their feet touched the water’s edge, the water from up-stream stopped flowing.” Go God! As they walked to the middle of the river, they stood firm on dry ground.  Twelve men were chosen to gather a stone from the middle of the river and take it to the other side, building an altar. Being symbolic of God’s deliverance–at the river. The rest of the folks entered, passed through and to the other side.

What a wonderful lesson and principle for us. Regardless of what brought the Israelites to this point, they stepped in, passed by, the priests stayed right there in the middle of the river, until all were safe. God’s presence staying in the middle of OUR circumstance until we are safely on the other side. Just as with the Israelites, we won’t experience God until the first dipped toe.

Coming to the river requires a decision. There is most often a tendency to hover near the water’s edge. Like with Israel, it also is a meeting place with God, a place of dedication, devotion and purpose. But we are NEVER to stay there. Reminder, the land has already been spied out, no need to wait for recon reports, you are GOOD to go! Our inheritance (joy, freedom, assurance, security, love), awaits us on the other side. Our options? GO or stay and just watch the water go by or turn back–into the desert, wander some more, even go back into captivity.

Us, “Too hard!” God–AMAZING! Jesus says in Luke 18:27 “What is impossible with men, is possible with God.” God takes the ‘im’ in impossible and turns it into ‘I AM’.

God crosses with us, stays with us and delivers us.

We do as the 12 leaders did, we take something from the river as a reminder and build in our heart as an altar before God, HERE and now YOU preserved me, YOU brought me through, YOUR presence stayed there in the middle of it all–to see me (not only on) but to the other side!

Delivering water needs to be crossed. God with us, God in us, God delivering us from what we deem impossible.

At the river’s edge.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrew 10:24)

(Side Note) I spoke this a few years ago at a women’s retreat, in the middle of the aisle I had a treasure chest full of stones. I felt God wanted us as women to identify our river. We, standing on one side, and NEEDING to cross over into what God wanted for us. The gals were encouraged to take a stone and write on it (pen provided) what was ‘too hard’, what they wanted–NEEDED from God. There was a boatload of crossing over that day.

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Do A Little Spurring

It’s the last football game of the season. The fourth quarter. The score is tied. A timeout is called. All eyes turn to the cheerleaders lined up with pom-poms flying. Smiles spread across their faces, and, with a deep breath, they shout, “Ready and…”

Knowing what comes next, we rise to our feet.

“We have spirit, yes we do! We have spirit, how ’bout YOU?”

Suddenly, the crowd comes alive. The cheers grow louder and louder. Like a swarm of bees, we unite our voices and erupt with deafening cheers across the stadium.

You can see it and feel the excitement, can’t you?

This is similar to the picture the writer of Hebrews paints when he says, “Consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24). Now, we may not want to picture someone like Paul wearing a cheerleader’s sweater, but these words carry the kind of enthusiasm that could rally anyone.

The previous verses call us to hold fast to our faith and hope. Now, our attention turns outward. We are called to cheer others on—to urge them to love. Faith, hope, and love: the triune graces of the Christian life.

I love the word spur. It sounds a little dangerous, doesn’t it? But before any spurring takes place, we are first told to “consider.” Consider the motive. Consider the method. Each scenario different.

One resource defines spur as “the endeavor to excite one another.” It isn’t kicking folks around; it is meant to stir up good and encourage. Like the cheerleaders rallying a crowd, may we inspire one another with excitement—to love God, love others, and (we’re not done yet!) live lives marked by beautiful behavior.

And imagine this: What would your life look like if the person who came alongside, encouraging you during a difficult season—had chosen to remain silent?

SPUR on folks!

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24)

Posted by  |  June 19, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Hungry

You’ve heard the old saying: ‘Never go grocery shopping hungry.’  Hunger has a remarkable ability to convince us that everything on aisle seven is a necessity!

Although the adage is a good plan for shopping and our budget, yet it does not apply when coming to the Lord. Across the pages of Scripture, God speaks through many authors and metaphors, calling His people to come to Him hungry and thirsty.

Jesus teaching the crowd says, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” (Matthew 5:6) This is not only a promise but an invitation. And again, in John 7, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink.” (v37) King David declares, “O God, You are my God, earnestly I seek You; my soul thirsts for You.” (Psalm 63:1a)

Have we noticed after dinner, full and content, when relaxing and watching TV, when a commercial comes on of a giant juicy burger, dripping with sauces—it has no real appeal! So, taking that concept, if we are not hungry or thirsty for God and His word—WHAT fills us? What throughout our day are we snacking on? What or who ruins our appetite for God? A good way to gauge when something is wrong or not healthy is when we lose our appetite altogether. It is the same with the presence of God and our lack of interest in His word.

What are we filling ourselves with?

Genesis 2:7 “And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life and man became a living soul.” Our bodies were made of dust, earth—organic matter. The soul was not made of the earth. So, earthly things cannot quench the hunger of the soul (close that fridge door!) It is ONLY the breath of God that feeds and nurtures the spiritual man! It is divinely birthed and divinely maintained. God initiated this for mankind, now we by invitation, in turn, seek that breath—His Presence and His word.

Paul wrote, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”  (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

Well, there ya go! 

How’s our God appetite? (Point to ponder).

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

Posted by  |  June 5, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

Hosting the Presence of One

This weekend we met with our ladies for one last (official) women’s breakfast before we ran into summer. Our goal for the morning was a 3-letter word, “FUN.” Having a Hawaiian theme, gals came decked out in bright floral attire, island music playing in the background, leis and funky glasses were worn, there was even sand thrown on the tables (before the food was presented mind you). A colorful beach ball was tossed around with fun questions to answer aloud to the group when caught, (I.e.) “What was your worst hair cut?”  Yes, fun was had by all.  But there was more.

We slowed down for a brief moment to consider one thing before we jetted out into multiple directions. I shared with the women, now that summer is here with all the activity, travel, schedules, and busyness it brings—comes gatherings with family and friends.

Hospitality is more than entertaining guests or preparing a perfect home. In Scripture, hospitality is about being generous and making room for people—in our homes, our schedules, and our hearts.

Paul wrote,“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people” (Galatians 6:10). In Proverbs, “A generous person will prosper; he who refreshes will himself be refreshed (11:25). Being hospitable blesses both the giver and receiver.

It doesn’t require wealth, perfection, or a spotless house (although it does aid in whirlwind cleanup activity). Sometimes the greatest act of hospitality is a listening ear. Going for coffee or lunch, offering an encouraging word, or simply making someone feel included.

True hospitality does not begin at the front door of our home—it begins in the presence of God.

Before we can genuinely welcome others, we must first spend time with the One who welcomes us. May we intentionally make time to be with Jesus first—hosting the Presence of One.

We didn’t stop there. We arranged a craft of making one coffee coaster (just one) representing their time with God. I encouraged them, if they don’t drink coffee or tea, to light a candle. Set the moment.

Among the laughter and the constant buzz of conversation there were beautiful coasters made, each unique and creative. I sensed anticipation of its use to come.

As we spend time in His presence and allow Him to renew us, may He lead us to open not only our homes but also our hearts, extending His love and grace to those around us.

First, hosting the Presence of One.

(Yes, that’s me in the middle, above)

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24)

Posted by  |  June 1, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: , | Leave a comment

Walking the Deck

I sat quietly reading in my comfy chair when my son called out rather energetically. “Mom hurry I NEED you!” As I came into the living room, he handed me a controller to PlayStation (Like I know what to do with it). Excited, he begins to yell out commands, which I assume I am supposed to be following. I took a seat and thus began the hysterical game playing. I was laughing so hard, I began to wheeze, tears were filling my eyes and the controller nearly falling out of my hands as I bent over.

We were playing Star Wars (I feel so hip just saying that). He kept saying “Follow me!” I was TRYING! I didn’t know which buttons to push, so I pushed them ALL. Somehow, I was supposed to get my man up on that scooter thingy. Much to MY own amusement, I kept crashing into trees. My job (as I found out later) was to be a distraction so his guy could be successful and finish his mission. Before I knew it, Matthew said, “Ok, you can stop now.” Had I even begun? The theme to Star Wars came on and I knew he was victorious. This was years ago, yet still makes me laugh (out loud).

Amazing what part we play in others’ lives isn’t it? A great example are those massive ships in the military. One in particular is an aircraft carrier. There is a department that is lovingly called the Yellow Jackets (Flight Deck Officers). These are men and women who, yes, wear yellow jackets and spend much of their time directing pilots as they prepare to take off and in their landings. One of their duties is known as “walking the deck.” As a pilot is either preparing for takeoff or landing, they and many other personnel line up across the deck and slowly–meticulously look for any debris. The debris if left on the flight deck could be very hazardous to the plane, pilot–the mission.

I find it very interesting as I liken it to our own relationships found in the Kingdom of God. We have many roles we play in others’ lives: Cheerleader, counselor, confidante, mentor, teacher and friend. But we are also to “walk the deck” and do our part helping to remove any debris or obstacles along the way. Do lovingly what it takes to help another to be successful in their journey with Jesus. We are called to encourage. Much of the time our encouraging a brother or sister takes action.

Paul shares in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” Encourage meaning to come along side, to aid with help, even to beseech with a stronger force.  We are to exhort to better things in God.​ Build, obviously is an architectural term, yet in context to what Paul is saying conveys more: to build up in the faith. Synonymous too with creating and shaping​—to cause to advance in the right​ direction​​. Painting the picture (if you will) we help by redirecting, helping to build (back to or stay on) their path with Jesus.

May we too, put on yellow jackets (metaphorically speaking of course) link arms with others and join the heavenly forces. May our words of encouragement be met with our acts of love. May we love enough to point out, help pick up, and remove any debris, even wave them off if the next maneuver is deemed unsafe. I am fully persuaded there WILL be times when it is messy, but it is worth it—to see them soar! Perhaps we too would hear the theme to Star Wars, (well, personally I prefer the theme to ROCKY!)

Walking the deck with and for others.

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).

Posted by  |  May 21, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Tags: | Leave a comment

This is Why

In my quiet time I have been reading through the book of Galatians. I am fascinated of Pauls telling of his encounter with Jesus. Paul, zealous in the traditions of his forefathers, advancing ahead of his colleagues, and once a persecutor of the Christians. Then dramatically calls it like it is “But when God” (Galatians 1:15, NIV) —everything changed. Don’t you just love it! We all need a “but when God” in our life!  He goes on to say God called him by His grace and revealed His Son to him (v16).

When Jesus presented Himself to Paul (remember the bright blinding light). He knocked Paul on his backside and was appealing first to His senses. He had to get Paul’s attention!  Paul was a highly educated man, a thinking man. Perhaps God was getting past his head so he could not attempt to rationalize the encounter, (thus three days of blindness).  The verse goes on to say, this revelation—all was done ultimately “so that” he might preach Him. (See Galatians 1:11-16 and Acts 9).

I appreciate that the Word of God is so practical. The phrase “so that” (used 80x in the NKJV) not only gives us a connecting clause but also is powerful and insightful—this is why.  Not that God needs a reason, but graciously and divinely, the writers included it and the Holy Spirit breathes understanding through it.  

  • “Walk in the ways of the LORD your God so that you may live and prosper” (Deut. 5:33). 
  •  All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16,17). 
  • Paul prays “I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know Him better” (Ephesians 1:17). 
  • “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:16). 
  • “Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes” (Ephesians 6:11).
  • “Pray for us (Paul & crew) that God may open a door for our message “so that” we may proclaim the mystery of Christ (Col 4:3)

May we spot the “so that’s” in scripture, aware there is a reason, and the reason is intended to be known. May we also see the “so that” in everyday life. Being mindful of moments (i.e.) realizing perhaps a delay was divinely designed “so that” we were able to see God move, or God move through us. Or, the slow tractor on the road is a blessing, so that I may avoid an accident up the road a bit.

Noting too, like Paul, God may find the need to get our attention and knock us on our backside, (He has me a couple-three times and expect there will be more). When He does, let’s look for the reason, “So that ______________________” (you and Holy Spirit fill in the blank).

The graciousness of God, “This is why.”

In Him, DeDe (“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds” – Hebrews 10:24).

Posted by  |  May 18, 2026 | Categories: * Miscellanous Stuff | Leave a comment