Someone asked me, “Can we ALL be called a ‘friend’ of God?” I am going to take it a bit further, and add ‘what’ it may look like, and what it may NOT.
First, I want to say, my whole outlook has changed since I studied this afresh this week. My gut
feeling and somewhat quick answer, has always been: The phrase ‘friend of God’ was JUST directed towards Abe, due to his obedient and trusting lifestyle. James 2:23 “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness” and he was called a friend of God”.
Yet, we sing it in church, we state it to others. We seek it for our own lives. To be a friend of God is taken (in my opinion) too lightly these day. To the extent that, some folks think and feel, that just because they are Christians that automatically makes them a friend of God. No. Ps. 25:14 says ‘friendship with the LORD is reserved for them who fear the LORD.’ We can be a Christian without reverence for God and His ways.
John 15:14 ‘you are my friends if…‘ Jesus says, ‘you do what I command’. The whole chapter (John 15) is full of ‘if’ or ‘unless’. Merely to be a Christian is not a ‘given’ in respect to the privileges and ‘perks’ of friendship, and PALEESE, may we be so very careful to state also the RESPONSIBILITY of friendship. It is how we respond to Jesus, (and others) His love, His laws, our responsibility to apply Him to life. As the saying goes, “love God on Sunday, but live like hell on Monday.” Is this a friend? James 4:4 “. .. therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.”
To be a friend of God, is to love Him, and His, (His people) This I believe is summed up in what Jesus states as the greatest commandment, (Mark 12:30,31) “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Intimacy is the difference between an acquaintance and a friend. An acquaintance, doesn’t seek to spend time with me, an acquaintance doesn’t necessarily desire my best. A FRIEND seeks me and my best. May I risk by saying, “want a friend, BE a friend.” Hm … I love what is said of Moses, “The LORD would speak to Moses face to face, as a man speaks with his friend.” (Ex. 33:11). One on one time. Yes, a friend of God.
Sometimes to understand the ‘positive’ view of something, we need to look at the negative. THIS is what I found . THIS is GOOD. All this time I took the phrase Jesus said to Judas in garden as a kind, redemptive statement (also heard it from the pulpit many times over the years) Jesus says, ‘friend do what you came for’ as Judas kisses Him, betraying Him. (Matt. 26:50)
HOWEVER, what Jesus said, got lost in the English translation, the imagery of the word. This is NOT ‘philos’ a friend who seeks our best, loved one, dear. He uses ‘heterois’, a friend for selfish reasons, also translated as ‘selfish comrade’. The word picture is that of a companion who seeks their own benefit, not carrying whether others rejoice or are in sorrow. Judas was friends with Jesus for WHAT he could get … not WHO he was getting. Did Jesus know this? YES.
Even in Judah’s poor representation of what it is to be a friend of Jesus, the END of his life shows a great example. It shows the true result of such a relationship… humiliation, sorrow in the deepest sense … death, (Matt. 27:1-10) Yet when Judas got what he wanted, it didn’t compare to the relationship he could have had with his God.
Head hung, shoulders slumped. How many times have I too, buddied up with Jesus … to GET. How many times, have I consciously (or even un-consciously) wanted His presence for … selfish gain. Is my relationship, my friendship with God for ‘WHAT’ or ‘WHO’? May we all pause here, and contemplate our relationship/friendship with Jesus. (ok, get up off the floor …) I sense God say to us. YES, He knows. He knows when we come to Him for the ‘what’. I also sense He would say to us, HE is GLAD we are there. His love for us is so great. Yes, He would desire our motive pure, once we are there in His presence He can begin to clean us up, wipe away the selfishness, and enjoy the WHO! COME.
Yes, a friend of God. Reverence. Loving Him, and His, obeying Him. Seeking Him, spending time with HIM. Want HIM, not the WHAT.
May I be HIS friend, In Him, DeDe
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again … it is a compound word … extra~ordinary! So much so that He is separate, like none other. This Hebrew word is wrapped up in the same word that God uses when talking to Abe, regarding Sarah having a son, (in their ripe old age I might add) “Is there anything too hard for the LORD?” Too hard … it can be rendered, ‘is there anything to wonderful for the LORD?’

water the flowers, know the plant well, giving it correct placement in the yard, shade, or full/partial sun. Then, for a healthy continuing blooming process comes, ‘dead heading.’ No, this does not mean slapping your neighbor along side the head, no matter how obnoxious they are!
My mom and Gardener, Aunt Mona (everyone should have an Aunt Mona) taught me how to dead head. Mona owned and puttered around in a plant nursery. She could NOT walk through one of her green houses without touching the plants, and they were beautiful!
crunchy ugly spots here or there. He enjoys the hands on, must touch approach! The Gardener desires to have us fruitful, luscious, beautiful and healthy. To be and do so, takes snipping, pruning, pinching, cutting or any other means to remove the spent blooms. Who knows, that snip here, cut there, although painful at times, may cause a scattering of seeds, that in turn causes a new birth in and around you.
me!) The United States of America is officially 233 years old today. Just like any nationally declared holiday, it has slipped from it’s original meaning to the commercialized display of self centered wonder.
O we may not agree with all that our nation stands for in this current era, or be proud of the decisions made in the name of democracy. But may we not forget the years rolled out behind us of those who followed whole heartedly their convictions, standing up for freedom, for justice. Mostly for the ability to read our Bibles, pray, and say the name of Jesus without the fear of a gun shot ringing out.
see the ‘ole red, white and blue’ waving in the breeze, see in our minds eye the uniforms worn, lemonade stands in front yards, Chevrolets and parades of soldiers coming home from battles, wearing bands on their arms of fallen friends. Picture children in school with their hand over their heart reciting “… one nation under God …”